There was outrage and anger at Nirbhaya’s time, it has come again, but how much circumstances changed?

On 16^th Dec, the country was shaken by the brutal rape of Nirbhaya by some non-humans in Delhi. We were angry like hell, we wanted to kill the convicts ourselves even though it would have ended up making us murders. We said many things, like their private part should be cut and they should be left on roads to rot without any support. They wanted them to be burnt alive so that it could set an example to not let it happen again. We did candle march in almost every city including the famous India Gate candle march asking for justice for Nirbhaya.

I must congratulate everyone, they were hanged excluding the juvenile and we got justice for her. One more achievement was India getting its juvenile law. The juvenile who was convicted in the case was set free on 20^th December. There was anger and outrage in the country which is happening to rise again, courtesy of Kathua and Unnao rape case.  Getting angry and outrageous is good if it is for the good cause.

At that time, we thought after all the protests, march and new rules, we will see a different India. We will not see such heinous, horrible, unforgivable, shameful, shocking and disgraceful crime again. We were wrong then like we are now. According to Delhi Police after Nirbhaya case till 2016 this despicable crime has risen by 277%. A day doesn’t pass by without a rape news in your daily newspaper. Just imagine the pain and suffering these rape fighters would have gone through. This will tear you apart from inside if it happens to you or your loved ones.

We need to know what makes them do this, even though they know that they are doing something wrong they somehow end up doing this. We need best psychologists to do their best study and research and find out the reason and then a solution. No one comes from any other planet to do these such crimes, they come from within us. We need to stop this otherwise people will fear after a baby girl takes birth in their home. They already fear it but they will fear it more which mostly results in knotting the independence of girls and women by their parents and family.

This shameful act will not stop until we change the way we look at females. Our society has objectified women which make us think that they are our property or a tool to play with. When a child is born, he/she doesn’t understand these things, we feed them with a silver spoon that females are weak and vulnerable and they have something men are very fond of. Through movies, songs, neighborhood, school knowingly or unknowingly we teach them that you are male and that person who is attractive and beautiful whom you are looking at is female who is different from you and has some different things which you will need further when you will marry her.

We need to educate them since starting to change their views. Why these people don’t do this to their mother and sister because they have been feed that they are their own and other girls are stranger to whom they can think of doing something. This is all about the garbage fitted in their mind which doesn’t stop them to rape someone when they think of getting intimate with someone.