Looking for some Relationship advice, Here is all you need.

I know most of my readers are or would have been in a relationship. Getting along with someone amongst teenagers are very common.  This is the time; we don’t understand how a relationship should work or run. We just get into it because it’s fun. Gradually when we start understanding how the world works, we also understand, something is wrong in our relationship. When we start getting annoyed more than being happy with our partner we start getting the feeling of let go.  

I have seen many amateur relationships breaking into pieces before it can give something good to the world. You too have seen many.  In metro cities making a girlfriend or boyfriend is more like a sheep factor than really wanting it. In cities they want someone to be their bf/gf just because their friends are in a relationship. I am not criticizing this practice but the way we youngsters are decoding this relationship is wrong and it can only take us to darker.

I have seen many people destroying their daily schedule by giving priority to it more than their main work. We have experienced many friends become foes. I don’t understand one simple thing, how taking your life is better than any other option. How abandoning parents (who love us more than anything and are willing to sacrifice anything) is better than doing something else. I only understand we have a debt to pay to our parents which can only be paid by being loyal to them. If we are standing somewhere today, the only reason behind it, is our parents. However, there are some exceptions where parents haven’t played their role nicely.   

We have read or heard that in the village, parents killed their kids because of a love affair which their society doesn’t allow. Such practices should be stopped and couples should also understand how the society works and they should play accordingly. Else than exceptions, every love-affair seems interesting at first but as time pass by it starts hurting us mentally.

I think the day, your love becomes a liability to you, the time has come to say goodbye to your love. People who are crazier in love suffer most. We have been told that love is the best feeling in the world. But in the real world, it’s not like that. According to some greats, the best feeling in the world is when you make your country or state or village or parents proud.

We should not take relationship too hard on us. Let’s not make it complicated and keep it simple as it is by just feeling and living it. We have listened it many times that it is very important to understand each other. This “understand” itself has lots of meanings to it. Believing in other’s priorities, giving them their personal space and time is an integral part of any relationship. If you feel that while saying goodbye, your partner didn’t say “I Love You” and you had a fight over it next day, believe me, you need to change how you look at love.     

I feel, if we are getting in a relationship, it should only make us stronger rather than creating problems for us and anyone else. It should only make two of us feel better rather than going in depression and feeling anxiety. It must strengthen our willingness to achieve our goal not becoming a diversion in it. This is how a relationship should be.